Emotional Intelligence (EQ)

A human being is a mixture of many components, two of the important components of human beings are the mental or intellectual and emotional aspects. 
The mental or intellectual intelligence means the ability of the person to understand and comprehend to analyse and evaluate various kinds of scientific, or literary material.
As for the emotional intelligence, it means the ability of the person to have the suitable feeling in a certain situation, like, sympathy and compassion. 
A human must be raised up by giving enough attention to both aspects. 
1. If a person has more intellectual intelligence than emotional one, he may use his mental ability to hurt other people, or at least, he may not be willing to share his knowledge with other people or be ready to assist them in time of need.
2. If a person has more emotional intelligence that intellectual one, he may have the enthusiasm to help other people and assist them, but he may not have the knowledge to do so; so, he, too, may hurt the people he's trying to help, without intending to.
3. But if a person has the proper combination of both, he has the readiness to help and assist other and understand their pains, worries, concerns and plights and he has the intellectual potential to assist and help them in the suitable way, thus, the consequences of his behavior are good and positive.
It is easier to train a student's intellectual abilities than emotional ones, but, the latter can be done through giving examples and stories that show how wonderful it is to be compassionate and loving and how terrible it is to be apathetic and hateful. Teacher's may also encourage any compassionate behavior that the student does and with time, a child grows up having more emotional intelligence and the seed of compassion grows up inside him giving a tree with widespread branches.
We must bring up our students and promote both, their intellectual and emotional intelligence so that they become distinguished students who can play a very positive and important role in their society and towards every member of this society.


watch this youtube video to  understand emotional intelligence better.

1/4/2012

I was really looking forward to attending a webinar about Emotional Intelligence titled "EQ Assessment in Schools", it was on march 22 but I couldn't attend it because my connection was slow.

A short while afterwards, I received an e-mail having some slides selected from the webinar, I would like to share some of them:

Happy Teachers Day

On Teaching

      Then said a teacher, "Speak to us of Teaching." 

      And he said: 

      No man can reveal to you aught but that which already lies half asleep in the dawning of our knowledge. 

      The teacher who walks in the shadow of the temple, among his followers, gives not of his wisdom but rather of his faith and his lovingness. 

      If he is indeed wise he does not bid you enter the house of wisdom, but rather leads you to the threshold of your own mind. 

      The astronomer may speak to you of his understanding of space, but he cannot give you his understanding. 

      The musician may sing to you of the rhythm which is in all space, but he cannot give you the ear which arrests the rhythm nor the voice that echoes it. 

      And he who is versed in the science of numbers can tell of the regions of weight and measure, but he cannot conduct you thither. 

      For the vision of one man lends not its wings to another man. 

      And even as each one of you stands alone in God's knowledge, so must each one of you be alone in his knowledge of God and in his understanding of the earth. 

Gibran Kahlil Gibran- The Prophet

The Angel And The Flower

Far away on a cloud of dreams

Sits a young angel crying.

A tear from his eyes or so it seems

Falls onto a flower that’s dying,

The tear so pure so gentle so sweet

Like balm to the flower it falls

And in a jiffy their eyes meet

Their eyes and then their souls.

Just then the angel ceases his tears

And the flower revives and grins,

They both forget all their fears

And the world all over again, spins.

Death And Victory

When the seed is buried in the soil

In the heart of the land her mother,

She is not dead, just getting ready for the toil

If it leads to life, her death won't her bother,

This bitter cup she'll drink with pleasure

As it is the way to the most valuable treasure.

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Would nature weep her death in winter

And cry for her egregious fate?

Only asleep, she is not dead, till after

Spring comes to wake her up on that date,

That date of March, of rebirth, of life

Time of glorious victory at the end of strife.

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And when the soil is defiled and poisoned

By the vicious filthy foot of a tyrant,

An eagle with faith whose heart is strengthened

Sure of victory, powerful and gallant,

Pricks his heart and its blood would pour

To wash the soil free forever more.

16/4/99